Fear of marrying the wrong person

 As we get older, we approach the age of marriage.  Marriage is a long- term and significant commitment it is a wonderful thing to experience but for some, they end up marrying people that turn out being completely different people than when they were in a relationship, or they can also grow to be someone one would not have married. That is what makes marriage scary to think about. People can always change but that is not a good goal to have when entering marriage "I can change them" because only the other person can control that, no matter what one can want for them. Divorce is very easy nowadays and very popular but that is what one is trying to avoid. This fear can stem in lots of ways from people's households and how they saw their parents in their marriage. Having been to many friend's house and families house marriages are all unique and different in their own ways. A lot of times people also end up with wrong people because they rush into it, they can be so in love at the moment and high on their emotions that they believe it is a very easy thing to jump into to but they might not know the other person well enough. How would they handle certain situations? What do they value? How would they treat their kids? Ect. 

How do you view marriage?